for those out there, who has a big temper like i am used to be,
come on guys, lets change ourselves @HIJRAH for a better MUSLIM,
like an idiom said..TURN OVER a NEW LEAF.
Because sometimes
without our concern, we'd already do wrong
even we'd angry for something which is wrong
which is...
we DO HURT people LOT.. and it is MOST hated by Him.
we also might as well,
will make our LOVES ONE HURT BADLY,
or ONE who LOVES US WORSTLY..
so,rethink again? had u hurt someone feelings.??
even he or she might not be someone to you,
but still he or she is someone to anyone.
if we hurt them,they'll sad,
then,their loved one will be worried,
then others too.
so,we are REALLY TROUBLER .arent we?
if we do angry at something,,or dont even like it.
just take our breath deeply,
and say it clearly..i dont like this .
and expain calmly why you hate it much.
then people will get the idea.
without even yelling at someone, because it
might hurt anyone,yet it's annoying for sure.
if that person not even get the point,maybe u can just show several BODY LANGUANGES that shows you hate them badly.
someone i adore much made me think about this, forcibly.
because if not, i'm losing everybody.
then i'll be lonely..(hu2, i dont wanna so)
maybe i angry at A because of he hurting B. so,then A is my enemy.
then,maybe tomorrow. i will fight with B for hurting A. then,B is enemy.
its REALLY NON_STOP ending. YOU MUST STOP THIS.
because in these life,no ones perfect. YOU need everybody to SUCCESS. same with THEM.
we are ONE team.
there is always a solution, a better-soft one,
to make people realize why you angry at them.
just dont hurt others feeling, when you yourself
doesnt want anybody hurt yours.
SECRET GARDEN hidden in ourself.
we have to treat others better.
friendly. kindly. softly.
its really the best way taught by Islam.
even we had a bad temper now..
but our HEART will surely wanna us to deal something in MANNER WAY.
ex:
"Adam,i'm so sorry. teh saya tertumpah atas buku awak"
"WHAT THE HE** are u doing? this is my BEST BOOK ever." (1)
"Oh.its okay. I can buy others as well. NO hal la Bro!"(2)
so, which is better?? 1 or 2? if it is was u who make that air tertumpah.
...
..
.
memang,memang,&memang..
susahkan tengah2 marah,tiba2 nak jadi lembut..(em, x betul agaknye)
tapi kan, x salah kan kalau kita cuba?
& sampai bila kita nak jadi org yg kuat marah...
sampai tua ..?
pastu semua xnak kawan dah,sebab...kita garang. so scary person.
HIJRAH. MUHASABAH. PERBAIKI IMAN.
INGAT!! Allah x akan ubah nasib kita,kalau kita sendiri x usaha.
so,lets change for a better tomorrow.
ala..nanti2 la..
kan kite lame lagi hidup, lek2 la bro. gelabah la lu ni. esok2 ade.
........hek eleh mamat ni. macam la die pasti dia hidup sampai bila. wa bukan apa la bro, cume takut tak sempat berubah. bawak perangai buruk ko sampai ke tua .
kang kesian kat anak bini ko..
salah sikit,ko bagi tangan je kat dorang.
kahwin-cerai je ko nanti. susah hidup ko.
em,betul lak mamat nih.
bro,thanks la bro. gua baru sedar la. bagus la lu ni. macam doc psiko lak.
.......well3..i'm going to be doc too...ngee33.
so,lets used out our Taman dlm Hati.
its SHOW TIME!
-may Allah bless us. hope doesnt hurt anybody. if do, im sorry.
~madebyme-justdontaskmewho~
